The Rule That Expired
Career · Promotion
By Feras Asakrieh · 5 min read · Issue #40
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We were three or four drinks in when he told me.
He did not work at the bank anymore. He had been senior there. Senior enough to have been in rooms I never got into. And somewhere between the sec...
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Sep 12, 2026
Nobody Promotes The Engine
Career · Leadership
By Feras Asakrieh · 5 min read · Issue #39
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I was on a work call the night my child was born.
Let me say that again, because it still stings.
My wife was in the bed. The baby was coming. And I had my phone pressed to my ear, solving a p...
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Sep 05, 2026
Nobody Is Coming To Look
Career · Leadership
By Feras Asakrieh · 6 min read · Issue #38
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I took over a new team and my inbox was a war zone.
Updates. Long emails. BI reports with three paragraphs explaining one chart. Everybody was telling me how hard they were working. Nobody was t...
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Aug 29, 2026
Ask For What You Want. Out Loud.
Career · Mindset
By Feras Asakrieh · 5 min read · Issue #37
Sandra had dinner on the table. I was still holding my phone.
The VP role had posted that afternoon. I read it four times on the drive home. I read it again at the table.
I told her about it. I told her it was a big ...
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Aug 22, 2026
Your best performer stopped thinking. AI is hiding it perfectly.
Career · Leadership
By Feras Asakrieh · 5 min read · Issue #36
My son Rayan is 14. A few months ago, I gave him full access to AI.
I did it on purpose. AI is becoming the new literacy. I did not want him learning it at 25, behind everyone else. I wanted him to have an edge.
...
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Aug 15, 2026
Hard Work Will Not Protect You From Toxic Culture
Career · Leadership
By Feras Asakrieh · 5 min read · Issue #35
Iwas driving home the night everything fell apart.
Earlier that day, the biggest project I was leading got pulled. Not by me. Not with me in the room. People I worked with every day had gone behind closed doors and ...
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Aug 08, 2026
Your Best People Should Be Able to Leave You
Career · Leadership
By Feras Asakrieh · 4 min read · Issue #33
Tuesday. Big executive review. I am already in the room when Alex walks in.
No text this time.
After twelve years, I noticed.
Who Walked In Twelve Years Ago?
Alex was not ready.
Smart, no question. But rough...
by Feras Asakrieh —
Aug 01, 2026
Nobody Settles After 40. Except the People Who Were Told To
Career · Mindset
By Feras Asakrieh · 5 min read · Issue #34
I was standing on the rooftop of my building in Jacksonville, Florida. My friend lives on the 21st floor and invited me up for a 4th of July party. I was 47 years old, surrounded by people who made me feel small in the b...
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Jul 25, 2026
Your Team Doesn't Need AI. They Need to Lead First.
Career · Leadership
By Feras Asakrieh · 4 min read · Issue #32
It was almost 9pm.
I had already turned off half the lights in my house, getting ready for bed.
My phone buzzed.
A text from one of my directors. "I need help managing someone on my team."
The Easy Answer
I ...
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Jul 18, 2026
The People Who Aren't Afraid of Their Boss Anymore
Career · Mindset
By Feras Asakrieh · 5 min read · Issue #31
Iused to run side businesses while working full-time.
More than one, for years. I built them quietly, on weekends and after hours, never making a big deal out of it.
Then I left Citi for CSX.
A different role, new ...
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Jul 11, 2026
Navigating Office Politics: Lessons Learned from My Own Mistakes
Career · Promotions
By Feras Asakrieh · 5 min read · Issue #25
Office politics is something many of us dread. It can feel like a minefield, full of unspoken rules, hidden agendas, and power dynamics that can be difficult to navigate. But if you want to grow in your career, learning to l...
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Jul 06, 2026
From Manager to Director: 4 Key Shifts You Need to Make
Career · Promotions
By Feras Asakrieh · 5 min read · Issue #24
The jump from manager to director isn't as simple as doing more of the same. As a director, you enter the first tier of executives, and your impact on the organization becomes much greater. Most managers miss the mark becaus...
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Jul 06, 2026